[Typo3] TMENU listing rootlevel pages only

[Amir]

Might I add, I searched all of TSRef and TypoScript by Example and I see nothing relevant to what I am asking here.  I have been looking through the documents all day.  If you can prove me wrong, please point out the page which you guys so much say the answer is there.

The basic question was and always is how I can make a HMENU or TMENU link to other sites in the same root level.